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October 07, 2024 |

In today’s fast-paced world, silence seems like a luxury! With constant notifications on the phone, the ever-present hum of technology, ears stuffed with air pods, the continuous bluster of traffic, and a restless world.…I am not surprised that silence doesn’t find a place quickly in our lives. However, silence can be a powerful tool for students and teachers. In this blog, we’ll explore the less talked about concept of “Silence in the Classroom – boon or bane, delving into the factors influencing it, its benefits and challenges.

Silence in the Classroom: Boon or Bane?Students’ silence in the classroom has lately become an area of attention for educators and scholars However, the factors influencing students’ classroom silence have been regarded as a problem of the relationship and communication between the educator and the learners. These are pivotal factors in understanding and addressing classroom silence.

Years back, when I began teaching, one of the questions that always echoed through my mind was whether to embrace silence in the classroom. For me, a traditional classroom was where teachers talked, students listened, and discussions happened. It was a place where talking was teaching, and the students’ silence was golden. That Golden Silence, as I understood, was more about exerting power over pupils and restoring order. At least when I was a student, teachers would expect pin-drop silence in the class to ensure discipline and complete control. The most commonly used phrase, “finger on your lips”, was a favourite amongst teachers and class monitors. Maintaining silence was a way to create an environment where students could focus on the teacher’s instruction and absorb the information being shared to acknowledge the teacher’s expertise and authority. I wouldn’t say I liked the idea of a silent classroom in those days, as I found it very restrictive and suppressive from a student’s perspective. However, when I became an educator, I learned to appreciate the profound impact that silence could have on the teacher and the taught, and thus on the teaching and learning process. It’s important to note that the approach to classroom discipline has evolved. Modern educational theories and practices promote more interactive and student-centred learning environments. While silence still has a crucial role in certain situations, many educators aim to balance maintaining order and fostering a more dynamic and engaged classroom environment.

So, silence in the classroom can neither be strictly classified as a boon nor a bane. Its impact depends on how it is used within the educational context. It can be beneficial and challenging, depending on various factors and how it is integrated into the teaching and learning process. Let me highlight how it can be helpful, if used judiciously, to enhance children’s learning experiences.

To begin with, a creative way is to allocate ‘ME Time‘ during the day from lower grades onward. It could last from 15 minutes to half an hour, depending on its objective and the teacher’s and student’s needs. This particular time could be utilised in the following ways:

  • Reflect & Introspect: Students must be allowed to quietly/silently reflect on what they’ve learned and process new information, thoughts and experiences, making meaningful linkages with their real world.
  • Setting personal goals: Students can be encouraged to set personal goals, both academic and non-academic, to help them develop a sense of purpose and motivation.
  • Guided mindfulness and relaxation activities: Such methods and techniques can help students manage stress, improve focus, and enhance emotional well-being.
  • Journal Writing: Providing silent time for students to write in a personal journal entry can encourage introspection, self-expression, creativity, and a means to process their thoughts and experiences.
  • Silent Reading or Learning: Allowing students to choose a book to read independently or explore a topic of interest can promote a sense of autonomy and a love for learning. For Silent Reading, DEAR Time (Drop Everything and Read Time) is a common practice in schools today. It can be a meaningful practice only if DEAR Time applies to all present in the school; from the guards, peons and support staff to the teachers, students and leaders, everyone should pick up something to read in quietude.

Unfortunately, oftentimes in the classroom, for a lot of students, the opposite of speaking is waiting to speak again. Students mostly think about what they want to say, rather than listen to what others have to say. Building a culture of silence as part and parcel of a regular class session can be a boon. Ideally for ‘Silence’ to be an effective tool in the classroom one can look at the benefits it offers:

Silence in the Classroom: Boon or Bane?

  • As an educator, I realise that silence can work to the advantage of teachers and students, especially in enhancing communication skills. Remaining silent helps students focus on the teachers’ explanations and develop their listening skills. I used to think, “Be attentive and Listen carefully!” were the be-all and end-all phrases for students to listen, aka “Sit straight and pretend to listen!” I took some time to realise that active listening is a critical part of the teaching and learning process. Listening is not a “soft” skill but a paramount component of communication and collaboration that caters to students’ socio-emotional development. Inviting students to pause, reflect, pair, and share allows them to participate in their learning. They listen to what others are saying and learn to respect and appreciate diverse perspectives. Teachers can model active listening skills, but there is no substitute for students practising those skills in the classroom with classmates, beginning with pairs. So, once the students get into active listening mode, it leads to better comprehension and improved communication skills.
  • A silent classroom also fosters ‘Inclusion’. Not all students learn in the same way. Some may need extra time to process information or think deeply about a topic. Silence ensures that all students get an equal opportunity to formulate and reorganise their thoughts, thereby eliminating the dominance of more vocal or assertive students and creating space for those who are less vocal and hesitant to participate actively. I remember a student named Naman, from the early primary wing, who often felt anxious about speaking in class. This was very different from how he was in his kindergarten years, when he would participate freely in any discussion. But to my surprise, he had become reluctant to share his thoughts, fearing judgment from his peers as he would usually say random things without any relevance to the topic being discussed. I was his English teacher and understood his struggle. To help him overcome his anxiety, I introduced short moments of silence before discussion and Q&A sessions. During these moments, Naman found solace. He could gather his thoughts and formulate his responses, and with motivation and appreciation, he could voice himself fearlessly. This simple practice boosted Naman’s confidence, transforming him into an active participant in class discussions. A solution like this ensures that diverse voices are heard and valued, leading to richer discussions and a more equitable learning experience.
  • Silence in the classroom is a valuable tool for cultivating critical thinking, analytical ability, and logical reasoning in students. It provides the mental space and conducive environment necessary for deep contemplation and the ability to analyse and thus encourages thoughtful responses. These skills serve students well academically and are highly transferable to real-world problem-solving and decision-making, thereby ensuring that learning was happening at the higher levels of Bloom’s Taxonomy pyramid – extending into analysis, evaluation & creation.
  • Ever wondered why meditation is done in silence? Silence is the basal requirement for focusing the mind, enhancing concentration, and achieving the deep relaxation and mindfulness that meditation aims to achieve. In silence, individuals can become more attuned to their internal thoughts, pace of breathing, emotions, and sensations. This self-awareness is fundamental to developing rational thinking– a technique enabling young minds to observe, think and question intelligently to comprehend situations and problems holistically.

In summary, silence as a boon in the classroom can be summed up as being a tool that can be harnessed for its benefits, but must be used wisely. It should be seen as something other than an all-encompassing solution but as a valuable resource to support learning when appropriately integrated into teaching and learning.

In Gordon Hempton words, Silence is not the absence of something, but the presence of everything.

This quote underscores the idea that in the quiet moments of the classroom, there is an abundance of learning, reflection, and potential. At the same time, let’s also be aware of the damage when silence is misplaced and ill-timed. Children often do not like to be silenced in the classroom for various reasons, as silence can be seen as restrictive and counterproductive to their learning and development. Here are some of the key reasons why it is considered a bane in class:

  • Being silent directly impacts the social interaction of students. Talking and sharing ideas with their peers and teachers is an integral part of their social and emotional development in schools, and they thrive on it. Being silenced can be isolating and make them feel disconnected from their friends and classmates.
  • Silence often deters students from being curious and creative learners, hampering their ability to explore the world around them. It can be stifling if their natural inclination to ask questions, share thoughts, and engage with their environment is being restrained. Active engagement in learning is crucial for conceptual understanding and deeper learning in any subject. For many children, being actively involved in discussions, asking questions, and expressing their thoughts helps them stay engaged and interested in the ongoing learning experience.
  • Prolonged silence can lead to boredom and disinterest. If it can happen to us as adults, it is natural to happen to children, who are naturally playful and energetic. Children not actively participating or interacting will become restless or disengaged from learning.
  • We all know that different students have different learning styles. Some may learn best by talking things through or discussing concepts with their peers. For them, silence can significantly challenge their ability to learn new concepts.
  • Being told to be silent constantly can make students feel controlled, powerless, dominated upon…, which in turn, may lead to resistance, insolence and behavioural issues. For some children, this constant silencing may heighten their levels of stress, anxiety, fear of making mistakes or being judged by others in the class, and affecting their confidence and morale.
  • From the educators’ point of view, it could be very challenging to assess or gauge students’ understanding and participation during moments of silence.
  • Last but not least, if one doesn’t know where to draw the line, excessive silence can hinder the lesson flow and create unnecessary time pressure.

Silence in the Classroom: Boon or Bane?So far, the focus of this article has been on how silence can be an effective tool vis-a-vis the challenges it can pose for teachers and students in the school environment. However, identifying and addressing silent students and teachers in a school environment is crucial too for creating an inclusive, supportive, and enriching educational community. We all know that every student is unique, and there could be various underlying reasons for their silence. It would make sense if we made an effort to view each student as a separate individual, with specific concerns. Here are some strategies for managing and understanding such students:

  • One must ensure that the classroom is a safe and inclusive space where all students feel comfortable, equal and willing to share their thoughts and ideas openly.
  • Show genuine interest in your student’s well-being and success.
  • Have one-on-one conversations with students who shy away from public speaking, prefer solo time and remain silent. Let them know that you’re there to support and care for them.
  • Pay attention to the students’ body language and facial expressions. Sometimes, non-verbal cues provide insights into their feelings and thoughts.
  • You can use your creativity to think of ways for students to participate beyond verbal responses. This could include written assignments, group work, or online discussions.
  • Another good idea would be to ask students to keep a journal where they can write down their thoughts, questions, and reflections. This can be a non-threatening way for them to express themselves.
  • Be patient and avoid pressuring them to speak up immediately.
  • Sometimes, students feel more comfortable speaking in smaller groups or with a partner. Incorporate activities that allow for this kind of interaction.
  • Ask other students if they’ve noticed any specific reasons for their silent classmate’s reticence. Sometimes, peers can provide valuable insights.
  • Be aware of cultural differences in communication styles and adapt your teaching approach accordingly.
  • If the student’s silence persists and seems to be affecting the academic performance or the student’s mental well-being, consider involving the parents or guardians. They may have insights or reasons for the issue.
  • Don’t try to do everything on your own. Collaborate with your school’s support services or counselling department to provide appropriate assistance and guidance.
  • Use formative assessments like quizzes or simple entry/exit slips, 1-minute Summary, or 3-2-1 strategies to gauge the silent student’s comprehension of the subject matter. This can help you understand if their silence is due to a lack of understanding.
  • If there is trust between the teacher and students, and they choose to confide in you, keep the information confidential; unless there are concerns for their safety. Respect the privacy of the silent students.

Silence in the Classroom: Boon or Bane?Understanding and managing a silent student requires patience, empathy, and a willingness to adapt one’s teaching methods to meet their needs. Creating a supportive and inclusive classroom environment can help these students overcome their reluctance and become more engaged participants in learning. This ensures that everyone has the opportunity to thrive, learn, and contribute to the school’s overall success. In essence, the quality of the relationship between educators and learners is paramount for successful classroom dynamics.

In the stillness of the classroom, a symphony of thoughts unfolds, each note a whisper of wisdom, and in this hushed exchange, we nurture not only knowledge but also the souls of our learners.” – Anonymous

(This QEDRAK authored article was first published in Teacher Tribe Magazine – November ’23)
August 24, 2024 |

It has been observed that the crime against women has been on the rise and with the recent events of violence against women, the society has to take action. As educators, we must recognize that the solution lies not only in holding marches and protests after such horrific events but also in proactively shaping the mindsets of young boys and men. By fostering respect, empathy, and equality from an early age, we can work towards a future where such atrocities are no longer a reality.

To address the issue effectively, we must first understand the underlying attitudes that contribute to violence against women. Many social stigmas still exist about the open display of affection. Young boys in at times grow up in environments where harmful stereotypes and toxic masculinity are normalized. These beliefs can lead to a sense of entitlement and disrespect towards women.

Educational institutions play a crucial role in promoting gender equality by integrating this important aspect into their core curriculum. And educators have the power to challenge these narratives and instil values of respect and equality. Here are some suggestions to consider, as you plan for transformational changes in students’ mindsets about gender:

1. Curriculum Development:

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Schools should design curricula that include gender studies, highlighting the importance of equality and the contributions of various genders throughout history. This can help students understand the significance of gender equality from an early age.

  • Diverse Perspectives: Integrate literature, history, and science that highlight contributions from all genders. Include works by female authors, scientists, and activists to provide a balanced view.
  • Gender Studies Modules: Introduce modules that focus on gender issues, exploring topics such as gender roles, stereotypes, and the history of the gender equality movement.

2. Inclusive Teaching Practices:

Educators should employ teaching methods that promote inclusivity
and respect for all genders. This includes using gender-neutral language, providing diverse role models, and ensuring that all students feel valued and heard.

  • Gender-Neutral Language: Use inclusive language that avoids gender stereotypes. For example, avoid the suffix “man” so typically added to many community helper roles. Use terms like “firesaver” or just “police” or “cable agent”, etc.
  • Diverse Role Models: Display images and stories of diverse role models in the classroom, showcasing individuals from various genders and backgrounds who have made significant contributions to society.

3. Critical Thinking and Discussion:

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Schools can encourage critical thinking
by facilitating discussions around gender stereotypes, biases, current news articles reporting gender disparity of crimes related to gender, and deep-rooted societal norms. This helps students to question and challenge existing inequalities.

  • Debates and Discussions: Facilitate debates on gender-related topics, encouraging students to explore different viewpoints and develop critical thinking skills.
  • Case Studies: Use real-life case studies to discuss gender issues, allowing students to analyze and propose solutions to challenges related to gender equality.

4. Encouraging Participation

Mix boys and girls to work on projects together. Explore gender concepts and roles from different communities. Help students identify instances of gender bias, through awareness activities or historical events, laws and cultural changes.

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  • Equitable Participation: Ensure that all students have equal opportunities to participate in discussions and activities. Use strategies like “think-pair-share” to give everyone a chance to contribute.
  • Group Work Dynamics: Monitor group work to ensure that all voices are heard and that no one dominates the conversation. Rotate roles within groups to promote collaboration.

5. Extracurricular Activities:

Institutions can promote gender equality through clubs, workshops, and events that focus on empowerment, leadership, and advocacy for all genders. This provides
students with practical experiences in promoting equality.

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  • Support the formation of clubs: focused on gender equality, such as a Gender Equality Club or a Women’s Empowerment Group, where students can engage in advocacy and awareness activities.
  • Workshops and Guest Speakers: Organize workshops or invite guest speakers who specialize in gender studies or advocacy to share their experiences and insights with students.

6. Training for Educators:

Teaching can be a powerful force for social justice. Providing professional development for teachers on gender sensitivity and inclusivity can equip them with the tools needed to foster a supportive learning environment.

  • Training Sessions: Participate in professional development sessions focused on gender sensitivity and inclusive teaching practices to better equip educators with the necessary skills.
  • Collaborative Learning: Encourage teachers of varied genders to collaborate and share best practices for promoting gender equality within their classrooms.

7. Parental and Community Involvement:

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Schools can collaborate with parents and the community to raise awareness about gender equality, creating a supportive network that reinforces these values outside the classroom.

  • Parent Workshops: Host workshops for parents on the importance of gender sensitivity and how they can support these values at home.
  • Community Projects: Engage students in community service projects that promote gender equality, such as partnering with local organizations that support women’s rights.

8. Creating a Safe Space:

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Safe spaces are environments where students have the freedom to make mistakes without lasting judgment or ridicule and where they can engage in critical, honest, civil, and challenging discussions about sensitive topics.

  • Open Dialogue: Foster an environment where students feel safe discussing gender issues. Establish ground rules for respectful communication and encourage empathy and understanding.
  • Anonymous Feedback: Provide opportunities for students to give anonymous feedback about their experiences related to gender sensitivity in the classroom, allowing teachers to address concerns effectively.

SHAPING A SAFER FUTURE

Together, we can foster a generation that values and upholds the dignity of every individual, ensuring that such tragedies become a thing of the past. By embedding these principles into the core curriculum and by implementing these strategies, educational institutions can significantly create a more inclusive learning environment that promotes gender sensitivity and equality among students, thereby contributing to a safer and more equitable society.

Let us commit to this vital work, not just for the sake of our girl students, but for our boy students as well, as we strive for a world where everyone can live free from fear, bias and violence.

May 29, 2024 |

Most of us tend to (or at least begin to) teach in more or less the same way we were taught. And here’s the thing – we aren’t even aware of it; we don’t realise that certain practices get passed down year after year… methods and practices that we consider ‘normal’ and perpetuate them without considering that they may be redundant in the current times, and that there may actually be better alternatives!

Vacation time is the best time to stop in our tracks and question the relevance of these methods – here I discuss 5 such TLMs which, frankly, I myself had used, but then decided to avoid / use very sparingly. I don’t think one can choose ALL or NOTHING when it comes to teaching! There are better strategies that will help us to meet the learning outcomes faster and more effectively, and it is time to revisit our typical old habits in TLM (usually boring for students).

1. Round / Random Robin Reading (a.k.a. Popcorn reading)

Technique: A teacher typically asks each student (the Robin) to take turn in reading aloud a short portion of a story, a chapter from a TB. Typically, all the students would need to remain alert since the next Robin selected could be any random student chosen by the teacher. Like randomly popping corns!

Why I used it: While I didn’t use it in SS, I did use it in the Language Arts, since (a) it consumed class time and the lesson (b) the story / concept kind of unfolded (c) we were able to explore new unfamiliar terms (d) the suspense of turns kept everybody quiet, and (e) I was able to silently tick of some formative assessment parameter for RC fluency.

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Research indicates: This is NOT a good strategy because it simply does nothing to actually improve student comprehension or reading skills. Also, it embarrasses students whose read-aloud skills are not at par. It offers only a tiny window of time for each student to actively read, and listening to their classmates read at varying levels of skill, this technique can actually teach students to read more poorly as they pick up the habits of their peers. Also, there is no guarantee that the ones not reading are actually concentrating!

Alternatives you could try: Depending on the age-group you are teaching, you may like to explore numerous alternative strategies by accessing this link: https://www.edutopia.org/blog/alternatives-to-round-robin-reading-todd-finley

2. Readymade Notes

Technique: This is when a teacher supplements an oral lecture with a handout that contains pre-written notes on that content, usually notes-pages that can be generated automatically from a PowerPoint presentation, or drafted from research on the internet and other similar publications.

Why I used it: I have used it in SS more than in Language Arts – typically to add breadth and depth of knowledge (since I was almost always dissatisfied with quantum of content exposure in the chosen TB publication). I felt that by giving ready-made notes (called Additional Factsheets), I was making it easy for students who had missed class to catch up, and it also prevented students from missing important points made during the lecture.

Research indicates: This, in fact, was a gross disservice to students! I was just making things easy for them! Literally, catching the fish and feeding it to them, rather than teaching them how to fish! I soon realised, when no effort is required in the learning process, learning doesn’t last very long.

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Alternatives you could try: You may like to switch to teaching your students the skills of note-taking, not just for your lectures, but also the skills of summarising key take-aways from reference books, internet sites and suggested video films. Sure, it may take time; but in the end, you will see it was worth it!

There are many ‘note-taking’ techniques – have your students try a few and decide what’s right for each of them. Allow students to compare notes with each other, discuss them, and revise them. Another powerful way to support students in their note-taking is to provide them with pre-lecture diagrams, visual structures like mind-maps that help them to understand the relationship between the concepts you’re about to teach. To learn more about such alternative note-taking techniques that work wonders, please access: https://collegeinfogeek.com/how-to-take-notes-in-college/

3. Teacher-favoured Punishments!

  • Whole Class Punishment

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    Technique: The teacher punishes the whole class for some behaviour infraction committed by only one / some students. Often, this takes the form of a lost privilege, like recess or a games period or a cancelled field trip or even writing something 100 times!

    Why I used it: I have to say here, that I have used this in the past, especially when a bunch or half the class would fool around or get too noisy! While I can now appreciate the redundancy of it all, I provide feeble justification which may be the same rationale provided by teachers practicing this today….well, it was faster and easier than trying to figure out exactly who caused the disruptions (I knew it wasn’t everyone, but who was counting?!) I issued the threat in the hope that I wouldn’t have to enforce it. I wanted to motivate them, to get them to behave in order to earn some reward. When it didn’t work and I had to use the verbal-emotional whip, I hoped the memory of the loss of a privileged activity would get them in order.

    Research indicates: In the absence of any research on this practice, I read up on some pretty strong public opinion that completely vetoed this TLM practice. Some said that whole-class punishment was and is “fairly ineffective at best, and strongly counterproductive at worst, in shaping group behaviour.” Many teachers recounted that they had been that kid who tried to behave, but got punished along with the entire class. Some shared that their own offspring today had been put in that position. And of course, there would also be those among us who were the ones that caused the trouble, leading to mass punishment! In essence, the weight of “ruining it for everyone” certainly cannot lead to effective classroom learning, nor foster healthy relationships with one’s peers, nor earn brownie points with the teacher or school authorities.

    Alternatives you could try: The best way to deal with a rowdy class is preventive medicine! If on many of your days, your whole class feels chaotic, this is actually symptomatic of a larger problem. Perhaps your directions aren’t clear; or your students seem disinterested, bored. You may need to explore more engaging strategies for interaction and movement into your lessons. If your teacher kitty is exhausted and the concern appears to stem from the student body, then it could be time to re-assign ground rules and agree upon clear behaviour-guidelines and consequences. When small disruptions come up, it’s best to deal with them quickly before they grow into bigger problems.

    Do check out the Distract the Distractor strategy here: https://www.cultofpedagogy.com/distract-the-distractor/ OR
    the Notebook Strategy here: https://www.cultofpedagogy.com/notebooks-part-1/

    You may also like to look up these sides for some alternative Classroom Management techniques:

    (i) https://smartclassroommanagement.com/2011/10/15/how-to-handle-whole-class-misbehavior/
    (ii) https://www.edutopia.org/blog/positive-not-punitive-part-1-larry-ferlazzo

  • Stand outside / Go out of the class

    Technique: If a child continues to disrupt the class and/or misbehaves, s/he is sent out of the class to singularly adorn the corridor, or is sent to some other person!

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    Why it was/is used: I have to admit that I have never used this technique at all, since I have always believed that an idle mind in the corridor could result in a worse devil’s workshop! I did, have errant students dotting the isolated far corners within my class – believing that at least, if the child was standing there facing me (without eye contact with the peers), s/he would be forced to listen and some of the ambient learning would seep into the disruptive brain! Some teachers, even today, choose to send off disruptive kids to a colleague’s class or to the staff room or worse still, to the ‘Principal’s room’!

    The claim: the time-out helped the student and themselves to realign to what needed to come next and get done.

    Research indicates: If a child’s behaviour isn’t good enough in one class it probably is the same in other classes too. If s/he is sent to another place, s/he may go on to misbehave there too or be motivated to behave out of fear rather than accountability and reformation. Imagine – one kid has potentially disrupted 40-60 children’s learning in one period! Also, why burden another teacher or the Principal for one’s own failings in classroom management? Everyone needs free time for their level of planning and preparation, not for looking after misbehaving students.

    Alternatives you could try: In most child-centric schools where students misbehave, they prefer students to be sent to a specific room (isolation/withdrawal etc) where one person looks after these students, rather than the possibility of causing more issues for other students, other staff and waste learning time. It is then for the teacher and HOD to attempt to resolve/organise a consequence-meet with the student at another time.

    Unless the misbehaviour is repeated despite warnings, or harmful to the general peace, quiet and safety of the school – it is better to not involve the parents nor advisable to send complaint notes to parents in the diary. Would you, as a teacher, like to receive similar notes from parents regarding how the child misbehaved in the home scenario? The recourse for reformative & positive action must be initiated and addressed at the location of misbehaviour.

4. Using Learning Styles to Plan Instruction

Technique: Most B Eds and similar degrees teach budding teachers the concept of MI and how every learner is either a visual, auditory, or a kinaesthetic learner. Other learning styles also exist, each one offering labels to define how students process information. Consequently, some teachers end up differentiating instruction by separating students into groups based on these tendencies. Once a student has been labelled with one particular learning style, the teacher attempts to adjust her teaching style to reach students through their identified learning mode.

Why I used it: This one I didn’t really use too much. I was aware of learning styles and I was always mindful of the need to present information in different ways to the entire group, with some extra guidance for some. E.g. for a student who had a lot of trouble following spoken instructions, I always tried to include written instructions. For a visual learner, I allowed drawing-based answers instead of dry para-text. Although, I never really felt I had aced competency in the realm of differentiated instruction.

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Research indicates: Attempts to find evidence / correlation that ‘matching the teaching style to the students’ learning style led to greater learning gains’, yielded nothing! I looked at study after study, but found NO proof that this practice has any impact at all. In fact, there is evidence to suggest that kids learn better through different modalities AND attempting to label students and narrow our teaching strategies with them can ultimately limit them, making them believe they are only capable of learning in one way.

In the context of Multiple Intelligences, Howard Gardner says, “It’s very important that a teacher takes individual differences among kids very seriously. The bottom line is a deep interest in children and how their minds are different from one another, and in helping them use their minds well.”

Alternatives you could try: Provide a variety of learning experiences and plan your instruction to reach all students through different pathways. In the same way that eating a variety of foods helps ensure you get all the nutrients you need, using a variety of instructional strategies will help you to reach every student. You may like to explore some strategies through these links:

For Text Structures: https://www.cultofpedagogy.com/text-structures/
For Cultural Diversity: https://www.cultofpedagogy.com/culturally-responsive-teaching-strategies/
Mind’s Eye Technique: https://www.cultofpedagogy.com/minds-eye/
Concept Attainment Model: Concept Attainment Model: https://www.cultofpedagogy.com/concept-attainment/

5. PEER Tutoring the old-fashioned way

Technique: The teacher plans a lesson aimed at the ‘average / middle group’ of learners. Thereafter, in order to provide extra assistance to students who need it, and simultaneously provide extra challenge for students who grasp the concepts quickly, the teacher plans to have the smart students (who finish the assigned task early), help those lagging behind.

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Why I used it: Oh yes, this one I did use; it just made so much sense! I couldn’t be everywhere to help all the students who needed it, and my more advanced kids were just sitting around with nothing to do (warning bell!), so it seemed like the best-fit solution. The kids who needed help got it, and the advanced kids got to learn the material really well by teaching it to someone else (remember the familiar quote – Teaching is Learning Twice?). Easy-peasy – two birds killed with one stone. As for Differentiation, hmmm?

Research indicates: No. That’s not differentiation. Although mixed-ability groups and tutoring can benefit the students who need help to some degree, these arrangements do very little for the advanced students in pushing their limits, or in engaging them in higher order thinking. In order to receive the appropriate challenge, high-ability or gifted students need regular opportunities to be grouped with like-ability peers. Having advanced students do peer tutoring of less capable kids doesn’t necessarily do them any harm, but if overused, it compromises true differentiated instruction. Neither does it offer learning experiences that would challenge these students at an appropriate level.

Alternatives you could try: Peer tutoring can be used, but very occasionally, thereby allowing students to share their unique gifts with their peers. To address the needs of all learners, we strongly recommend that you try the strategies recommended by Carol Ann Tomlinson in her book, The Differentiated Classroom, including learning stations, tiered assignments, orbital studies (3-6-week independent investigations), and learning agendas, where students are given a list of tasks to complete in whatever order they want over a period of several weeks, much like the kind of personalized plans given to students every day in Montessori classrooms. If you have a class with ‘gifted’ learners, you may like to access the strategies mentioned in: https://nagc.org/

Finally, after spring cleaning these old habits, here’s something fresh you may like to add to your basket of goodies as you approach the new academic session : 6 Powerful Learning Strategies that you must teach your kids – https://www.cultofpedagogy.com/learning-strategies/

As rightly stated by Dylan Wiliam“A bad curriculum well taught is invariably a better experience for students than a good curriculum badly taught: pedagogy trumps curriculum. Or more precisely, pedagogy IS curriculum, because what matters is how things are taught, rather than what is taught.”

Good Luck!

February 24, 2024 |

Navigating the classroom has its unique set of challenges, especially in the realm of student motivation. And I experienced this pretty much in the first year of being a teacher. Having shifted from the corporate world into student education, I was green about large-sized classroom management strategies, but not so green about learner-motivation. That’s because I was dealing with my young son at home and figuring out tricks, through varied trials & hits, as well as by reading up books like “How Children Learn.”

The Motivation Makeover

A clear indicator of diminished motivation is when students start chatting individually, resembling scattered kernels of corn. Before long, my class resembled a bowl of loudly popping corn from random chairs, with little focus on the task at hand. Initially, this would get me down with a twisted feeling in the gut that I had failed! And I couldn’t fathom why! I felt, my lesson plans were fairly creative; my add-on resources were good, activities and assessments were well -planned….so what was going wrong?

My biggest error, I realised, stemmed from “I felt…”. Reality hit! It wasn’t about ME and what I felt; rather it was about what my bunch of learners felt! What THEY found interesting or not, or felt motivated to sustain as an activity for learning.

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Other educators shared that they too were able to reach many of their students, but there were those who were quite unreachable. No matter what they tried, such kids had no interest in learning, no interest in doing quality work, and most teachers were quite out of ideas, letting the day roll by till the next bell rang for a relieving change of class! I had my own set of unmotivated students, and I hadn’t discovered any magic potion for my lot. Thankfully, I wasn’t the only one facing this challenge.

For a long time, I had no solutions; the problem was really complex. So, I decided to do some research, to try to find what the most current studies said about what motivated students. This is what I found:

  1. Students are more motivated for academics when they enjoy a comfortable and positive relationship with their teacher.
  2. Choice can be a powerful motivator – making room for offering choices works splendidly for upping motivation in most educational contexts.
  3. For complex tasks that require creativity and persistence, extrinsic rewards and consequences actually hamper motivation.
  4. To stay motivated to persist at any task, the learner must believe that s/he can improve in that task.

What I read was out there on the Internet, free for all to read, learn from, try out as strategies, and attain success, right? If we as a collective group of educators had access to all this material, as well as the tips to motivate students, why were so many students still unmotivated?

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While discussing with my colleagues, about the problem, I found I was getting drawn into staffroom discussions hovering over convenient blame games… of blaming (a) technology: “Students are so distracted by their digital gadgets,” OR blaming (b) the parents: “Parents are just not bothered” or “Parents protect their kids too much – they don’t want their kids to fail/experience setbacks/take responsibility,” OR making (c) sweeping generalizations: “Kids today just aren’t like what we used to be. Today’s kids behave as if they have no care in the world, they behave so entitled.”

I had to stop in my tracks. What were we doing? Passing the buck? Maybe. It was certainly easier to blame outside forces than it was to look inward and make big changes in the way we taught. Unfortunately, even if ALL of the above statements were true, they weren’t within our circle of influence; and we couldn’t do anything about them. The only thing we really had control over is WHAT went on in our own classrooms.

It was time to look at my own practice.

I set aside all the outside factors and just focussed-in on my time with my students….how was I doing? How much alignment was there between my own instructional moves and the research on student motivation? After the period of research, reflection, review and realignment, I summarised my analysis into 5 questions that educators facing student-motivation problems should ask themselves, to see if they really were doing everything they could possibly do, to boost student motivation.

Without getting too preachy, I’ll run through those 5 questions based on the 4 above-mentioned findings with you, reflecting on the years when I was a teacher with preparatory & middle school students.

Review 1 : How was my relationship (really), with my students?

A respectful, yet comfortable teacher-student relationship provides students with a sense of stability and safety, which sets the stage for more academic risk-taking and building the inner drive to do something.

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  • So, what kind of relationship did I have with my least motivated students?
  • How well did I really know them?
  • Did I have conversations with them about the things they cared about?
  • Or was I more or less giving up on them?

My honest reply to myself

I mainly taught English language & Social Science and my students were by and large very regular with their tasks, so I got to know them well. But when I think about my less-motivated kids, I’m not so sure I could say the same. The connection I had with Sohail* consisted entirely of my getting him to make up missed work, write neatly and scolding him for disrupting the class. That was all we talked about: the missing work, why he wasn’t turning it in, how important this stuff was for his future . . . blah – blah – blah. When Sohail saw me coming, he probably just saw a dark looming cloud of nag! We never really talked about the stuff that mattered to him.

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I’d like to add here that as a fairly alert and passionate educator, I NEVER gave up on any child. A child who is already unmotivated feels insecure, is probably not doing too well academically (and sadly for some), also bearing the brunt of class ridicule, wrapped in the feeling that he is incapable of achieving anything. If teachers give up on such children, they reinforce that feeling and the child will never be motivated to make any attempt or put in any effort to improve.

The child probably feels that – “Staying at the lowest of low level is ‘safe’ – one can’t fall lower than that, can one? And if I put in efforts to move up one level, oh my god! More effort to stay there and not fall!”

What I learned to do better

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I became more aware of the value of my relationship with students, beyond just academic demands. Student to student relationships mattered too! Fun quizzes, new Did-U-Know GK facts out my hat, or a funny retell of a hilarious experience from the previous day, built an immediate ‘whole community-like’ motivation to know about the unknown, at times with awe and at times with humour.

The disconnect gradually melted away into a connect that also taught me how to learn to laugh at myself! I was also guided by a senior mentor to go through some videos on YouTube and other academic pages that really helped (try them – you might find something that works for you):

  • the 2 x 10 strategy, shared by Angela Watson – in which teachers spend two minutes a day for ten days casually chatting with underperforming students.
  • Smokey and Elaine Daniels’ The Best-Kept Teaching Secret – which talks about how dialogue journals can help educators to get to know their students better, personally and academically
  • Jim Sturtevant’s book, You’ve Gotta Connect – which helped me a lot and is full of specific strategies for building stronger bonds with one’s students.

Review 2 : How much CHOICE did my students actually have?

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I mentioned earlier about CHOICE being a great motivator. We hear this stated often times in education circles, but very few of us actually embrace it. After all, providing choice can be messy, with students completing different tasks at different paces, making it hard to be consistent with grading. It can also mean a lot more preparation and planning for us teachers!

Think about it – if you were to give students three different options for an assignment, that means you would have to prepare all three options ahead of time. Or would you? Isn’t it easier planning for worksheet-oriented teaching, where students are doing low-level ‘assured correct answer’ work that was largely prepared by the teacher? However, if students are to be engaged in more long-term, authentic, creative projects, it’s would be more meaningful and motivating for them to be provided with choices!

My honest reply to myself

I was actually quite open and free with letting students choose topics for assignments or the type of model material to use for projects or the demo experiment they wished to perform in front of the class to exhibit their performance of understanding. But when I start thinking about Jaydev* or Abhinav* (who, by the way, were incredibly smart, but unmotivated), I realised I had minimal success. The “dark looming cloud of nag” approach I used with Sohail also failed miserably with these two.

I didn’t realise then the power of differentiation for learners and the power of choice!

What I learned to do better

I realised I could have handled things better – perhaps, had a conversation with Jaydev about letting him work ahead with somethings; or given Abhinav and his project mates guidance on more individual-centric tasks. If I had identified how they could have had a more active role in their own learning based on their area of interest, they may have been more participative and engaged; rather than sitting way low in their chairs constructing projectile games with their pens!

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I also learned from discussion with others and personal reading that there were a lot of ways to allow more choice in the classroom without having to upset the boat or having to go against the grain of school rules and norms. These included allowing choices for – seating, project groups, type of resource for learning (reading or audio book or video), type of task submission (make a podcast, video record the presentation, beautify a journal rather than a standard notebook answer), and even timing (allowing students to change the order of activities and timelines as long as the final submissions fall within the deadline).

Review 3 : How much was I relying on the carrot ‘n stick approach?

Many teachers, even today, rely on rewards (carrots) and punishments (sticks) to get work completed, thinking they have motivated the students. Wrong! Students held to ransom by the ‘sticks’ complete tasks out of fear, not because they were genuinely motivated and wanted to.

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Extrinsic reinforcement can work for simple and easy tasks (like getting students to clean up the classroom quickly, in exchange for a PE period). But for tasks that require critical thinking, creativity and complex thought, extrinsic rewards actually reduce motivation.

Think about these Qs (as I did when I was on Review 3):

  • In the class, how much of your motivational approach is extrinsic?
  • How often do you use grades, treats, privileges or punishments to prod students into doing something they don’t really want to do, something they have no real interest in?

Know that, if extrinsic reinforcement is your primary approach, you may actually be killing off any natural motivation students might have otherwise had.

My honest reply to myself

I scored a pathetic low on this one! As a teacher, my classroom management ability in the beginning was quite a mess – I found the supposed magic wand of controlling students with names on the board, extra credit, whole-class rewards for good behaviour, and the ever-reliable promise of bringing in my special Pasta in Pink Sauce on the next working Saturday!

I admit now that those were not good practices at all – I did those because they worked for me! But there’s a difference between getting kids to do what I want and truly, deeply motivating them to perform and participate by their own initiative.

What I learned to do better

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I made a conscious effort to catch myself the subsequent times I was tempted to tie a challenging activity to a reward or a punishment! I prepared for my class lessons well, ensuring that when introducing a task, I tried to focus on its inherent interest or value and how much students would learn rather than earn as a grade or a star.

I tried to devise methods clubbing choice with mild rewards, like:

  1. “Well, here are 20 words for the forthcoming Dictation Test from Chapter 5. However, I propose to give one extra word from the lesson that is not in this list of 20. If you get that spelling correct, you can offset it against an incorrect spelling. AND, if you get all 20+1 correct, then you get triple stars!”
  2. “Here are 8 questions that I would like you attempt; the first 6 are compulsory for all, and the last 2 are for extra credit.”
  3. I had to use a different approach for the same objective for my senior class (even if you label me an unfair tease). It worked wonders!
    “Hey class, here are 8 questions of which the first 8 are really easy. But I want to see how many of you can do those last 2? Aha! Frankly, you have acquired much more knowledge than these require and I believe you can attempt ALL the Qs…anyway, let’s see!”

The first two approaches are clear-cut and an easy win, the extrinsic reinforcement to earn if they make that extra effort. However, for the underperforming, unmotivated students, try moving more toward the second approach and see if anything changes. Some kids love being challenged; they love competition.

Review 4 : Was my communication with students aligned to a ‘growth’ mindset or a ‘fixed’ mindset?

This question was directly linked to my 4th finding that “Students are motivated to persist at a challenging task when they believe they can get better at it”. That requires them to have a growth mindset, i.e. the belief that their intelligence and abilities can be developed with effort.

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Teachers have a direct impact on this mindset with what they say to students and how they respond to misses and failures. By saying something like – “You’re so smart,” “You are gifted in Math,” or “You’re a born writer,” we are telling the student that it is their natural ability that got them where they are. We’re actually contributing to a fixed mindset; almost as if to say – they cannot develop anything else or in any other sphere, other than what they are currently showing prowess in. That’s certainly NOT motivating.

My honest reply to myself

I can hide behind the convenient excuse that, back when I was a teacher in the classroom, no one discussed anything about ‘growth mindset’. I thought my students would feel great if I told them they were smart or talented.

I can remember a conversation with Raviraj*, a student who commanded the attention of his peers with ease, but got into trouble a lot and fared poorly in academics. I remember pulling him aside and telling him that I thought he had strong leadership qualities, and that if he could just get his grades up, he had a bright future ahead of him.

Of course, that didn’t work! If I wanted him to “get his grades up,” I would have been better off noticing a well-constructed sentence or complimenting the way he got his garba dance group back on track during a cooperative learning activity or how he deftly manoeuvred the football during the inter-house match, showing him, exactly what kind of choices he should keep making to be successful.

What I learned to do better

What I learned over time was:

  • Instead of praising something innate and fixed about a student, I should focus on specific things students can actually control. So instead of :
    • telling a student she’s a smart / great student, I needed to observe the level of detail in her answer;
    • The Motivation Makeoverjust saying “Well done!” to another student, I should be marvelling at the level of difficulty s/he was able to handle on that challenging problem of calculating time between cities, based on their latitude;
    • generically saying “Wow! Awesome project!”, I should point out and commend how much preparation each team member must have done for the presentation they gave on ‘Minars and Minarets’.

    It’s always faster and easier to just tell students that they’re awesome, but taking the time to be specific and focus on their individual special efforts will pay much larger dividends towards improving motivation.

  • When I had formulated the constructive feedback to be given, I needed to follow the exact same principle of making it specific. Rather than saying “you need to work harder”, I needed to be specific in guiding a student on exactly what to work on and which areas needed deeper reading and practice. I started focussing on things like – Is neatness in mapwork an issue with this child? Does she need to read the questions more slowly? Is he doing the short answers right, but messing up with the flow and structure of the long answers?

If a student knows what to work on and how, s/he will be far more motivated to do that work.

Review 5 : Was I making the academic content relevant to my students’ lives?

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This is a question I found most teachers answering in the affirmative – “Of course, I give lots of real-life examples.” In my opinion, this principle has been around for a long time and we assume we’re making the connection more than we are actually doing it in class!

So, how was I doing in this aspect? Did I regularly provide opportunities for students to connect what they were learning to the world they lived in?

My honest reply to myself

To be honest, along with managing the school (as the Head) and actively teaching across many grades, I got a little lax about this. Just like taking time to think of a good opening and closing for each day’s learning, I ended up often cutting corners on making the content and study material always relevant. Initially, I was often much more focused on getting through content and tasks than I was on making learning meaningful.

Having said that, I must admit that I was pretty good at designing written assignments on topics that they would need to research on and they would find interesting, but I wasn’t paying heed to whether I was connecting what they were doing to how it could help them in life. For example, with something like letter-writing, I was probably more focused on “this is how you get a good grade on this” rather than on “this is how you can use letters to narrate an experience” or “put forth a complaint for your society or” change someone’s mind with your perspective.”

What I learned to do better

What I learned over time allowed me to consciously focus on 3 aspects:

  1. Planning and remembering to highlight the relevance at an appropriate point
  2. Making students reflect on how the concept connected with their individual lives
  3. Designing activities and projects, that made students apply their learning in the real-life societal scenario
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  • Planning and highlighting the relevance: Making material more relevant can be as simple as occasionally stopping an activity to explain its relevance. E.g. when studying bacteria, talk about all the places bacteria hang out in students’ daily lives. Making these kinds of connections is a natural practice for many teachers, but if you’re anything like ‘ME before my awakening’, you might forget to add these connections into a lesson. So do what I used to do – just boldly add them into your lesson plan or literally pencil them down in the textbook near the appropriate paragraph; then check at the end of class whether you covered them.
  • Make Students reflect: Asking students by turn, to think about how course material connects to their own lives can make a difference in motivating them to think, speak up and find connections. And here’s the beauty of this approach – when you consistently get children to make connections to what they are learning, over time it just becomes a habit! When they learn something new, almost as a reflex, they start making own-life connections or finding similar situations that they can relate to. Now THAT’s a life skill they will need for life!

    One of the resources I had read exemplified a teacher asking her students to write weekly reflections on how the learning and concepts covered in that week related to their lives. Strangely, lower-performing students in these classes did better compared to those where teachers didn’t use this intervention. Researchers referred to these as “value interventions.”

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    Design tasks that can be applied to society: Many schools that follow project-based learning (PBL) or actively participate in events like Design For Change – I CAN challenge; consciously encourage student projects that have an authentic, public end product—like a video, a live presentation, a community service project, a website—something that will ultimately be consumed by people outside of their own classroom. This naturally motivates students to work harder on a task.

    So, I redesigned my plans to ensure that each big concept was wrapped around ways to build assignments connected with real, public issues, products, services.

So, that was my journey of evolving from a mediocre teacher struggling with student motivation, to emerging as one, who my students wanted more time with! The purpose of this exercise is not to beat ourselves up. It’s just a way of deeply analysing and diagnosing a problem most teachers struggle with. There’s a very good chance that the easy blame-points of technology, parents, or entitlement are playing a role in what we perceive to be reduced student motivation. But there’s a very good chance that our own instructional decisions play a role as well.

So, if you are struggling with student motivation (as I did years ago), then pick one area from above and start there. Make a small adjustment every 15 days and see what happens. Remember, for solving a problem as complex as student motivation, there is no 2-minute Maggi-magic formula nor a Druid potion. Instead, we need to identify a set of tools that we blend and refine over time. The process will definitely be slower and more frustrating than a single, easy solution, but hey, we are all educational professionals who are lifelong learners, aren’t we? This is our craft, what we do best. And I know, if I could change, so can you! Good Luck!

*The names of the students in my testimony have been changed to preserve their identity.

December 14, 2023 |

Child-like Wonder – something we are all born with, yet just a handful of us keep this alive as we age into the autumn years of our lives. Having said that, I do believe that is it easier for people in education, especially school education, to keep this flame burning for a long time all due to our magical, curiosity and wonder filled times with students around us!

Dear Teacher, Keep Alive The ‘Child-Like Wonder’

So, Teachers, every year, as you begin a new Academic year, you would probably be looking forward to welcoming and embracing the new bunch of little wonders who will be attending school with you for a good 220 days or so! Some of the 3-year-old toddlers would be attending school for the first time! Also, every parent handing over their child to you would be living through the anxious moments of releasing the little ones into your care, hoping their child settles in comfortably, sans emotional trauma, and enjoys 12-15 years of a memorable, exciting and life-changing journey at school, unravelling the mysteries of the world and life at large.

Imagine each parent writing you a personalised letter – the way Abraham Lincoln wrote to his son’s school teacher (here it is to refresh your memory):

Dear Teacher, Keep Alive The ‘Child-Like Wonder’

That letter was written decades ago; however, its essence holds true even today! Like Lincoln, what would present-day Parents truly want to share in their letter to YOU – their child’s mentor, teacher, friend, guide for the journey ahead? We reproduce here – the introductory section of what a parent (Tracy Ann Clark) wrote to her son’s first teacher:

“Dear Teacher,

Dear Teacher, Keep Alive The ‘Child-Like Wonder’

My son saw his first snow last winter. He stuck his little face straight up in the air and squealed with delight when he felt the cold, soft flakes against his skin. The white, feathery bits swirled around and then slowly floated down towards his outreached hands against the backdrop of deep grey, Texas skies. His eyes filled with pure wonder at the sights, sounds, touch, and taste of it all.

There in that moment I thought about YOU, his ‘future teacher’. I thought about all the pressures, requirements, and agendas you are bombarded with. I thought about the big tests and the consuming reality of preparing for these snapshots of my child’s supposed learning. I thought about how you might even be told to ignore what you (and brain research) know(s) about how my son learns best.

I thought about the precious and fragile gifts I see in my child today: pure wonder, joy, and curiosity. And I’d like to share with you from my perspective, as a parent, as a former teacher, and current learner, what I think really matters.

Have you thought about what really matters? It is important for Teachers and Parents as Partners in Education to share with each other and understand from each other, what REALLY matters – in life and in the growing years of a student.

Continuing here, are the points that Tracy Ann Clark listed for her son’s Teacher (quote – unquote), which is relevant for every educator today and always:

Quote1. BELIEVE IN MY CHILD, BEYOND WHAT YOU CAN SEE

Believe my child can do more than remember the order of the planets and recite the year Columbus sailed the ocean blue. Believe that he can think in new ways, even if you haven’t seen it yet. Believe he can grow and not be defined by last year’s teachers’ notes or those black, pink and blue cards that sum up a year of behaviour with numbers or stickers or pluses and minuses. I want you to be a downright crazy idealist when it comes to what my child can do. You might be surprised when he rises to the challenge.

2. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, BEYOND WHAT YOU THINK YOU CAN LEARN

Dear Teacher, Keep Alive The ‘Child-Like Wonder’

Believe in your ability to meet his needs. Learn new strategies when something just isn’t working. I’m not sure where we internalized the assumption that teachers should know everything, but it is just that – a false assumption!

I’d much rather you realize and model the value of on-going curiosity and growth in your own life, and watch the beautiful overflow of passionate learning spill into your interactions with my son and your other students.

3. STOP PLAYING SCHOOL

Have you ever thought about the fact that my son’s birthdate, an arbitrary number on the calendar, determines when he is deemed ready for multiplication or solving chemical equations? I want you to question everything: Does my son need to sit in a desk in a row? Does he need to raise his hand to respond? Is this whole thing really working? If the answer to that last one is no, then stand up and change it. I’ve got your back!

4. VALUE CURIOSITY OVER COMPLIANCE

Dear Teacher, Keep Alive The ‘Child-Like Wonder’

Learning is messy. Learning doesn’t always look civilized. Curiosity and student interest don’t usually fit inside a pre-packaged curriculum. What do your actions show my son that you value most? Are you so busy telling him to be quiet, or get in line, or hurry up, that you miss the caterpillar he is crouched around, trying to help it across the sidewalk? Please don’t show my son that school is a place for compliance over curiosity. It isn’t about colouring inside the lines. And here is a-not-so-secret-secret, my son’s future employers agree. Our world needs more creatives than cogs. Do we want well-behaved students or world-changing students?

5. VALUE PROCESS OVER PRODUCT

I know it is a lot more work to get out the rice bins, water table, and gallon containers to let him explore capacity for himself. I know water might spill and those grains of rice are killer to clean up when they overflow and find their way into every nook and cranny. But I really care about the experience and so does he. My son needs to touch and feel and shake and sort and measure.

Dear Teacher, Keep Alive The ‘Child-Like Wonder’

My son needs to stomp and jump and run and fall and dust his knees off. My son needs to ask questions and read about things he loves and write about moments he treasures. He needs to persevere through a challenging problem and experience the satisfaction of finding an answer not because the answer is the point, but because of the learning he is constructing along the way.

So, let my son ‘create’ without a bunch of rules and a model product. I know it feels like everyone else has the perfect cookie cutter wall displays. I know it feels like all the other classrooms look ‘Pinterest-perfect’. But does HIS model flower need to look exactly like all the others? What does this prove my child can do anyway? Follow directions, conform, copy. I want more for him. I think YOU do too. If they all look the same, then you’ve got a recipe, not creativity.

6. ADOPT A POSTURE OF EXPERIMENTATION

If my son can’t try something and fail at school then where can he? Nurture a culture of thinking where it’s okay to make mistakes. A space where my son can develop the thinking dispositions of a scientist and an entrepreneur as he explores and experiments and figures things out by himself.

YOU can be a model of this every day as you innovate, iterate, and learn alongside him. I don’t want him to be afraid. Maybe he won’t take on the same fear of failure most of us adults have, because all he knows is that failure is part of the learning process.

7. MAKE ROOM FOR ‘HIM’ IN THE CURRICULUM

Right now, my son’s world is all about the colour red and giraffes. Next week it might be dinosaurs and things with wheels. Help my son see himself in the curriculum. Talk to him about what HE is interested in, what HE wonders, what HE wants to find out. Design learning that takes HIM into account and makes information accessible. Take the time to respond to HIS questions, or provide a place for him to explore them on HIS own. Show him that learning isn’t confined to the time and space of the classroom or the scope and sequence-and guide him where to go when he is hungry for more.

Dear Teacher, Keep Alive The ‘Child-Like Wonder’

Right now, it is easy to see with fresh eyes as he explores the world around him. Everything is new, everything is a first. Everything is a surprise. He is never bored, because the world is incredible and it is his to discover. Maybe that is part of why he is such an exceptional learner right now. With YOUR help we will see the same look of wonder when he devours a good story, writes a killer poem, comes up with a new way to solve a problem, or combines two chemicals.

So, dear Teacher, I need you to partner with me and protect the precious, fragile gift of ‘wonder’ and ‘child-like imagination’, because that is the key to learning and it is really hard to get back once it is lost.quote


Isn’t that a lovely letter? Does it not encapsulate the real matters that education should focus on? To foster and nurture an environment that retains the wonder of newness, discovery, questions, self-discovery, magic, creativity, breaking old moulds? The child-centricism? The opportunity and space for spills and errors; of not being judged or being coaxed into a standardised cloned mould? A space to be free, to dream, to find one’s uniqueness and to just BE?

To revive the power of child-like wonder & imagination among teachers and to sustain it in our students as a lifelong skill, Team QEDRAK shares below some favourite videos on the same topic – do view them and become a child all over again!

November 25, 2023 |

One of the most important roles that a teacher and a parent plays in the lives of children under their care, is to keep them safe and secure, especially in times of turmoil.

How to Speak to Children about Conflict & War

When rage, conflict and war make the headlines, children see disturbing images on television, or the internet, or on their digital phones. They may also hear things from friends, playmates, as well as other children and adults (worsened, like Chinese whisper, with each oral transfer), about what is happening in society, their city, their country and in the world, including frightening possibilities about what could happen to them! Lately, viral forwards on social media of horrific videos on local riots, accidents, heinous murders caught live on video, war crimes and atrocities against women and animals, have created feelings of fear, stress, sadness, anxiety, and even anger among children, across all age-groups.

Talking with kids about violence and world conflict can be hard, but it is important. Whether it is situations of conflict in Ukraine, Middle East, Canada, closer home at Manipur, Punjab, Bihar…. even at school and in their homes. As mentioned in the podcast, the way real life unfolds is often not outside the Lakshman rekha of the cocoon of bliss we have chosen to create for our children. We would be making a gross mistake if we were to believe that by not talking about it, our kids will be ‘ok’. We would be making a bigger mistake to assume that conflict and war would never touch our lives – so why talk about it!

How to Speak to Children about Conflict & War

This is very similar to the taboo we see around (in general), of families hesitating or absolutely avoiding openly discussing the nuances of physical expressions of affection or abuse – now titled Good Touch-Bad Touch. We must understand that Knowledge is Power, even in situations of conflict and war. Being well-informed, means being well-guarded and being safe.

How does one initiate the conversation?

If you are now convinced that one MUST talk about conflict & war, you would probably be wondering about how to begin; how to help your kids make sense of what’s going on in the world? It is well said that before we discuss a topic with another, we must first have a certain level of understanding about it; in this case, learn about the politics and culture in the conflict-ridden areas and understand the events that triggered the conflict or war.

It is advisable to initiate the discussion only when you can give your full attention and time – a good starting place is at dinner when everyone is around or pre dinner (avoid pre-bedtime, as it may disturb their sleep).

How to Speak to Children about Conflict & War

One can begin with something like, “What have your friends and playmates been talking about?” or “What have you heard about what’s going on?” Then give them time to voice their thoughts or concerns. Let children freely express what they’ve heard (objective or biased), what they’re feeling (like confusion, fear, sadness, or anger) without judging or offering an immediate opinion.

Instead of casually sliding it off with, “Don’t worry about it,” it is better to repeat back the concerns with something like, “Yes, I can see why this makes you upset / fearful.” This helps children feel heard and understood. It’s even OK for adults to admit that violence upsets them as well. Let kids know that families being hurt or killed is hard for anyone to hear, so they are not alone.

Another pointer to bear in mind is that we must be open to the quantum and nature of information being shared by children; how much they know, how distorted, or how little they wish to share; but we must pay close attention to their emotions. It is quite possible to be faced with any combination of these scenarios; some children…

How to Speak to Children about Conflict & War

  • may know very little about it and aren’t interested to share anything,
  • may keep mum, but worry in silence,
  • may actually open up and share details,
  • may be unable to distinguish between images on screens and their own personal reality (especially the little ones), and may believe they are in immediate danger, even if the conflict is happening far away,
  • (older ones) may have seen troubling things on social media and be worried about how the war or conflict might worsen.

How to Speak to Children about Conflict & War

Whatever the sharing, it is important to not reduce or disregard their worries or be too hasty in correcting them. As you show that you are interested by listening to them with your full attention, they will be more likely to open up to you and other trusted adults, now and in the future. The key is to hold up a figurative emotional mirror, reflect what you see, and offer compassion as you reassure them of their safety. Let them share freely and then choose the right words and moment to bring in clarification where needed.

How much should one share and clarify?

Children grow and develop differently, including in their emotional and mental abilities to process images and information. Currently, across many homes, it is normal for parents to spend time watching the news and feeling emotions of worry, sadness, and anger in times of war and conflict. While children have a right to know what’s going on in the world, adults should use wisdom and discretion in how much detail to share.

It’s best to be honest and explain things based on the kids’ age and maturity. Use age-appropriate words, watch their reactions, and be sensitive to their worries.

  • Early grade school: Keep things short and simple, like, “People are fighting, and some are getting hurt.” Things like visual displays may help them to understand. For example, if they ask where it’s happening, you can show them on a map. End the talk by reminding them that the adults in their lives keep them safe.
  • Older kids: You can give extra information but avoid graphic details. Children this age may ask more questions, and it’s OK to answer them briefly. You don’t need to tell them more than they ask. Sometimes kids may want to read an article with you, but make sure it’s right for their age.
  • Teens: Teens will likely know more about what’s happening and may have strong feelings. Encourage them to share by asking, “What do you think about what’s going on?” Let them lead the conversation. Then try to answer any questions they have. If you don’t know how to respond to something, explain that the issues are complex.

    Very often adults may feel stuck with the clarification with older children – it’s okay not to have the answers to every question. You could seek time to look it up or you could use that moment as an opportunity to find the answers together. Use websites cautiously; stick to reputable news organizations or international organizations like UNICEF and the UN. Explain that some information online may not be accurate, and play-up the importance of finding reliable sources.

    How to Speak to Children about Conflict & War

    Also, with older kids and teens, if you feel that your children are likely to experience the wrath of some conflict / war, make them aware of the government protocols for safety. If the conflict is closer home and among school / society peers, teach them the life-skills of knowing when & how to engage in strife (preferably sticking to verbal exchanges, not physical) and when to step back for a higher ideal, keeping one’s ego at bay.

You know your child best. Remember that children take their emotional (and other) cues from adults, so use your time with wisdom, objectivity and discretion. Be cautious in oversharing your emotions and opinions with them. The key is to calm fears and reassure children of their safety.

What about access to news and social media?

Cocooning them completely really doesn’t work, since the access to information these days is so varied and so quick. There may be a lot of scary stories and videos online when conflict happens. If kids are on social media, more of these are likely to show up in their feed.

What you could do for a start is that – for younger kids, you can block certain apps and websites; and for the older ones, talk about it with them and try these tips:

  • Defining limits. You can talk about how tempting it can be to go online, but explain that some photos and videos may be very upsetting, even for adults. Talk to them to explain that they cannot enjoy around-the-clock access; you would need to work out mutually agreed upon ground rules on what apps they can use and limiting time on social media. By installing an app to monitor screen time, you can keep check on what and how much of screen time your child is being exposed to.
  • How to Speak to Children about Conflict & WarSharing with Caring. New age kids freely post things online, but some posts could be hurtful to others and even dangerous. Talk to your kids that videos, images, and websites can cause strong reactions in people who are affected in conflict and war situations. Create a family / school culture of NOT forwarding or sharing anything related to violence (no matter how dramatic or exciting it may seem). If they want to post or repost something about a conflict that’s not related to violence, they should seek your guidance and approval first.
  • Monitor and be available, because you care – not control! Remind your kids that you’re there to support and protect them. If they see something upsetting, you want to hear about it and make sure they’re OK. When you notice them watching something, ask if they’d like to chat about it with you. If kids want to stay informed, encourage them to follow accounts that you know provide accurate information.

    Also, as conflicts arise and news stories gain attention, be sure to check in regularly to see how children feel about the escalated / continuing war and conflict. Do they have more questions? Are they interested in getting your perspective? Do they want to clarify something they heard or saw?

  • How to Speak to Children about Conflict & WarPathways for good information. To give kids a break from situations of news and views about conflict and war, bookmark some sites where they can find good news that’s right for their age – like GK trivia, or new technology in cars / bikes / rockets, or what’s trending in music and fashion!

What else can one do?

In addition to the above, one can be caring, supportive adults who offer a positive, flavour to life’s mishaps. You may like to refer to these tips:

  • Spread compassion, not stigma. News stories and images from war and conflict can stir up strong feelings, which can create prejudice and discrimination against a people or a country. When speaking with or around children, avoid labels and name calling, such as “bad people” or “evil” and instead use it as an opportunity to encourage compassion, such as for the families who have lost members or those forced to flee their homes.
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    Focus on those who are doing good. To offer hope, remind your children that many people are working hard around the world to stop the conflict / war and find peaceful resolutions. It’s important for children to know that there is good in the majority of people and that people are doing good for those who suffer from war and conflict. Find and share stories of helpers and heroes who serve and sacrifice for the benefit of those who are affected by war.

    Talk with children about ways they can help – like making cards / writing letters and posting them on social media. The sense of doing something, no matter how small, can often bring great comfort.

  • Exemplify your clarification with nature’s recovery after a natural calamity. Children will be able to see that the order of the world does not support stress, conflict, disaster for long – there is hope in recovery and getting back to a better world, even if not the same. The indomitable spirit in man to improve and inherently seek balance, is also present in the earth, flora and fauna.

How to Speak to Children about Conflict & War

As you traverse this journey of talking to kids about conflict & war, bear in mind that children have different reactions to stressful events and some signs of distress might not be so obvious. Younger children may become clingier than usual, while teens might show intense grief or anger. Be alert about your child – whether s/he seems worried or anxious about what’s happening; be aware of any changes in how they behave or feel, such as stomach aches, headaches, nightmares, sleep-walking, bed-wetting, difficulty sleeping. Many of these symptoms last for a short time and are normal reactions to stressful events. If any condition prolongs, it is advisable to seek professional help to help the child come through without emotional scars.

Let your children know that you’re always open to talking more. Just being present is a huge part of supporting kids during times of conflict & war. Being consistent, open to talk and caring helps them feel protected. ***

October 16, 2023 |

If you have chanced upon this blog article but you haven’t had the opportunity to read Parts 1 & 2 by the same name, then we strongly suggest that you begin there. If, however, you have understood the syndrome of ‘work refusal’, know what it can look like, what can cause it and what to avoid if faced with that situation, then read on!

This final article serves as the silver lining – it covers strategies, tips and techniques that we have tried, read about and heard from others as good practices. Note, that the suggested strategies should NOT be considered as a magic wand. They are meant to be support ideas, so treat them as interventions techniques that you can try in helping kids refusing to work, to and get them back on track! Bear in mind that they might take time to work or some may not work for a particular learner. There is no one-size-fits-all formula; it is all about finding what works best for you and your concerned learner.

Here’s what you CAN DO:

  • … give them ‘wait’ time. When a student refuses to work at first, often times all they need is a little wait time. It’s okay to let them have their head down or keep their arms crossed, briefly. Give some time and wait to see if they come around within 5 minutes or so.
  • … turn a blind eye to small misbehaviour. If a student crumples up the paper, breaks the pencil, or scribbles all over the paper, avoid the immediate desire to tell the student off or that they shouldn’t do that or give any further instructions. When things like this happen, the student is basically seeking attention with negative behaviour. One trick that will help in this instance is just giving space, letting them know they are there but not focusing on the behaviour.
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  • … continue teaching. Just because a student doesn’t have the pen/pencil in hand and is not taking notes or writing, doesn’t mean they’re not listening and learning. A good idea would be to continue teaching, talking, and even involving that student if they want to participate in the discussion.
  • The ultimate goal is to educate the student, NOT force them to work. Our duty in the classroom is to offer opportunities for learning so we should just keep at it – with our plan.
  • … focus on building ties and bonds. For many kids, relationship is everything. We could try putting the work aside for a bit and spending time with the ‘work-refusal’ student during lunch break, or talk with them after class, and really just get to know them. Tell them about you as a person, by sharing your challenging moments at their age. Once a bond is built between a teacher a child, many students have a much easier time working for that teacher, because they know the teacher cares. This isn’t a quick process, but it’s super important and worth the time and effort for their long-term success.
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  • … help them to understand the goal and how to proceed. Sometimes students refuse work due to social and emotional challenges, but other times it might be because they think the work is just too hard for them. Analyse the situation and see if the student needs guided, personalised assistance with reading, comprehension, writing, or math.

    Sometimes learners might even need step-by-step direction for executional functioning. You can help them get started and work through challenges. Where necessary, consider discussing the student with the Special Educator or School Counsellor to get some ideas and strategies.

  • … apportion the larger tasks into smaller work packets. Another cool way to get students to work is to allow the student to choose the problems they will finish for a start OR which 1 question out of the 3 essay questions, they were ready to show us the next morning. Some of our colleagues did argue that this made life too easy for the students and it seemed unfair, when viewing the totality of the class deadline.
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  • … communicate with the student privately. When meeting with a student who is struggling to complete work, the most important thing is to just listen! Talk to the student, ask them what’s going on, and problem-solve about how you could help him/her. It is important that this personal meeting no be considered as a punitive measure.

    One could try with, “I noticed your morning work isn’t finished, where can I help you?” Try to avoid interrupting the child’s sharing with your own thoughts / point of view / assumption about what’s happening – just let the student first talk. In our experience, we were amazed with some of the responses we got – “… because of a seating arrangement next to a noisy classmate; … haven’t been getting any sleep at night due to a crying younger sibling; … failed to make it into the school sports team.” By being open-minded and by listening we were able to problem-solve with many students.

  • … try logical consequences (prepare for them in advance). Logical consequences are outcomes from behaviour that make sense. For example, if a student is refusing to finish their morning work, a logical consequence would be using some break time later in the day to finish at least 3-4 questions or sending it home as homework to be done later.
  • I don’t wish to work” Syndrome

  • … prepare the student in advance with the consequences. Consequences shouldn’t be a surprise to the student. The students with work completion challenges must know ahead of time about consequences in a positive way, sans anger. We preferred to create this awareness with the whole class, by saying something like, “Everyone needs to finish their work so we can finish watching the rest of the Gandhi movie.”
  • … try neutralising the moment. The difficult ‘won’t-work’ argumentative moment, can quickly become a power struggle when a student outwardly tells the teacher they are not doing the work. It is critical to know how to de-escalate a situation. Our time-tested strategy has been, “Let’s talk about this later.” It gave us the perfect way out of a heated situation with a student in class, while letting other students around know we were not ignoring the ill-behaviour; we had just planned on dealing with it later.
  • … offer choices. For some students struggling with work completion, we explored offering limited choices for assignments – to a maximum of 2 choices to avoid making it confusing or overwhelming. This made the student feel s/he has control and choice. Here is an example, “Would you rather write the complete answer in pure text or would you like to draw a scene from the text and write a few sentences about it?” Isn’t the ultimate goal to get the student back to completing all the work? Without a doubt! When a student was outright refusing to do work, completing just one item over none was counted by us as a eureka success moment. We all have to start somewhere!
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  • … identify what makes the student tick. Another way was to go the extra mile of finding out topics the student enjoyed reading about, mulling over, working with and learning about. It could be any topic: cricket, go-karting, drawing, animals, garba time or dance, or even a certain television show. The topics and ideas were endless. Driven by our creative mind-set, we used bits of those realisations in our instruction to hook the learner and help him/her to feel more interested and start working.
  • … think about patterns in work habits. Patterns are everywhere and they can make the seemingly invisible much more visible! We worked around finding out – Is the work refusal only happening during math? Or maybe during group work? Maybe it’s only in the pre-lunch hours or in the post-lunch session? By thinking about these patterns and really delving into the evidences, we were able to build an informed judgement about what was really going on and to handle it.
  • … try to use a ‘push-start’ button for task initiation. Skills for task initiation are very much like a car starting up. When kids lack these skills to get started, it can be extremely frustrating for them, for us and for parents at home. Oftentimes, kids don’t actually know HOW to start a challenging task or assignment. One must be alert and aware that if such skills are lacking, we must push the start button by teaching them how to!
  • I don’t wish to work” Syndrome

  • … try giving a choice of different writing tools. This may sound crazy, but some kids get inspired when given options for what to write with. Tools such as gel pens or coloured pencils instead of just a plain old pencil / pen worked like magic. Sometimes, the freshness of a new eraser can help kids get over that road block of starting. It sure worked for us; you could give it a try.
  • … provide some leeway. Giving leeway or accommodations doesn’t necessarily mean we are making an assignment easier; it just gave more options for how the student approached the task. So, you could try these:
    • Allow a student struggling with reading to listen to audio books.
    • If a student isn’t writing, allow them access to a laptop and type or complement their textual answers with visual art.
    • Give out a calculator to a student who gets fatigued with math problems (provided the math skill isn’t calculations themselves).
    • Give a word bank, provide multiple choices, let the student use manipulatives, and so on.
  • … stretch accommodation into taking turns. Where necessary, another strategy in line with accommodation that one can try (when one really wishes to hand-hold and help), is to take turns writing and completing problems with the hesitant student. For example, one of us completed the first problem and wrote it in the student’s notebook. It helped us to think aloud while solving the problem, and this was the work-habit we wanted to see in the student. Then, we got the student to complete the second problem. Next, we tried completing only a few lines of the third problem and so on. This emerged as a more collaborative approach that eased some of the kids into working and finishing their assignments with independence.
  • … give bite-sized breaks. Most kids need a break sometime. Consider adding a preferred activity right after an assignment you want your student to complete. Plan some meaningful brain break – say with a trick quiz question, or catching up on some world sports & games event (especially cricket, football and tennis).
  • I don’t wish to work” Syndrome

  • try an incentive plan, if needed. Yes, yes, we know incentive plans aren’t considered to be a good idea; and most educators refuse to use it as a strategy. We agree that they shouldn’t be used as a first strategy, but there is a time when they can help a struggling student work towards their goals.

    We even tried using a fun ‘work contract’ that detailed logically, what the student was responsible for and what incentives the student would get by completing the work. Such a work contract set the tone that we meant business, that we would stick by our word AND that we expected that the student made an effort to do the same. The trick is to find the sure-shot push button around the child’s interest area, remembering that each individual student is motivated by different things. You could also draw up a reward inventory with the student, so that s/he is motivated to earn the reward.

  • … bring in the family. Sometimes we needed help from the parents. When we had to call in the family for the first time, we always believed in sharing something positive first. With that said, we then progressed into the areas of concerns about the ward and our observations on their challenges with work completion. One needs to be extremely mindful while communicating this with parents. Rather than saying, “Your child is refusing to work,” we preferred to tone it down with something like, “XX seems to be struggling with getting started even on assignments that are at his level.”

    Invite parents to walk the journey of their child’s learning as Partners in Education, and enquire if anything else is going on in the home or outside of home with the child. Often, parents are more than willing to talk about the concerns with their child and on many occasions, this fixes the concern. The rule is – both school and parents must speak the same language and have the same ‘logical consequences’ approach.

  • I don’t wish to work” Syndrome

  • … become a reflective practitioner. At times, we needed to step back and reflect, introspect on what WE could be doing that might be triggering the student to refuse to work. For example, are we using a harsh tone? Did we embarrass the student by calling them out for something right before? Sometimes, there isn’t anything apparent, but it’s always worth considering!

And finally, unwind, energise and rewire yourself. Self-care for teachers is definitely not stressed enough in the world of education. Working with ‘work–refusal’ students can be emotionally and physically draining. It is important to take time to focus on one’s well-being. After all, there is much truth in the famous quote “You can’t pour more from an empty cup!”

We hope this blog has offered some good ideas for you all to try in the classroom and at home, to convert resistance to work into a lifelong skill of becoming a self-driven, independent student in charge of their own learning. God Bless our Little Ones! ***

October 13, 2023 |

If you have chanced upon this article but you haven’t had the opportunity to read Part 1 by the same name, then we strongly suggest that you begin there. If, however, you have reached here after Part 1 AND you are a teacher facing the very challenging classroom situations of ‘work refusal’, we empathise with you. Been there done it! Also know, that we do not wish to add pages of reading to compound your work nor your woes.

If you are unsure, stuck, helpless and don’t know how or where you are heading…try our guidelines and strategies; they’re worth a try since we hit successes with many of them. Remember though, even the most perfect classroom management and support strategies may NOT fix every problem or challenge.

How Can One Cope?

Parts 2 and 3 offer some strategies to consider when handling kids that are struggling and hence refusing to work. We completely get it if classroom teachers cannot do it all, nor do we expect them to. Perhaps schools (institutions with a solution-focussed culture) can help educators in these tough situations, with complementary support from admin and other staff. The biggest shifts in achieving success in this area can be attributed to making teachers, families, and the student work together in tandem – as Partners in Education.

There are certain DOs and DON’Ts that we have listed based on our experiences, research and sharing. In Part 2, we shall cover the latter and leave the icing on the cake for Part 3!

Let’s start with the DON’Ts…

    send the child out of the class

  • send the child out of the class. Often times, teachers believe that out of sight means out of my hair! Sending a child out from class to the corridor or to the Principal may appear to be a good option (because it deals with the situation swiftly for THAT teacher), but it does not fix the problem. In the long term, it makes matters worse, with the ousted child feeling anger and resentment towards the teacher and finding the corridor (with nothing to see-hear-do) an open space to misbehave even more!

    Ousting a child from class sends the message that the teacher is unable to deal with the situation and that she is passing on her problem to another teacher or the Principal. If a student is just sitting at their desk and refusing to work, it should not be a reason to send them out of class – even non performing kids receive much more education by just being in the room and hearing the discussions, rather than being cornered in the staff room or principal’s office.

  • … simply attribute it to laziness. From a child’s point of view, it is often actually easier for the child to comply and do their work than refuse. So, it’s clear that the work refusal is due to something else in play and not just laziness. A good tip here is to reframe one’s thinking and to never forget that the child could be struggling and may need our support.
  • get into a power struggle

  • … get into a power struggle. I think as mature adults we all recognise the fact that no one ever wins in a power struggle, especially between adults and the kids! Not fair play at all if we look at the ages involved in the sparring! So much energy is wasted and even if the student eventually complies, s/he is bound to be filled with resentment.
  • … appear or feel angry & frustrated. When the work refusal situation is becoming overwhelming, it is important to understand – “She’s not giving me a hard time, she’s having a hard time.” There is no shame in taking a deep breath and walking away from the tug-o’-war. The little eyes are upon us and children observe adults us on how we cope with challenges. We need to teach them that while facing challenges, we need time to contemplate, think things through and then respond with ideas for a way out; rather than having an unpleasant, knee-jerk violent reaction! It’s understandable to feel frustrated with a situation, but we must not act on that frustration. We must remain calm, collected and make the best choices in each situation.
  • … punish the child. If a learner is struggling with some social or emotional challenges at the moment, a punishment is only going to push them further away. The punishment will appear as a harsh, mean, and an uncaring stance by the teacher. We know that teachers do not intend for punishments to feel that way, but for many students, punishments often do, especially for the ones with trauma in their past. That doesn’t mean that we “let the student get away” with any kind of behaviour! Instead, we can use the approach of logical consequences.
  • publicly embarrass the child

  • … publicly embarrass the child. Calling out a ‘work-refusal’ student in front of the whole class (often with anger in the teacher’s tone) might result in a power struggle or escalation of the situation. All because the student feels belittled in front of his / her peers. Instead, teachers should consider ways to privately support the student to help both to get the work done.
  • … threaten the child. As teachers and parents, we often end up making the proverbial “conditional statements” like, “If you don’t do your work, I’m going to inform your parents,” or “Finish this or you can’t go for your PE class.” Sometimes, these threats only make a student more adamant, stubborn and may corner him/her into digging their heels in deeper. When better sense prevails, we may even regret what we’ve said. Instead, we need to try to be mindful about what to say and make sure our stated consequences fit the ‘misbehaviour’.

Read Part 3 by the same name, to learn about what you CAN DO to work with “work refusal” children and lead them into productive work with independence. ***

October 12, 2023 |

Based on our experiences over decades, across kindergarten, preparatory, middle and high school kids, we at Team QEDRAK have faced varied instances of the “I don’t wish to work” or “I won’t complete my task” syndrome. This is better known in the education space as “work refusal”.

Understanding this Syndrome

“I don’t wish to work” Syndrome

Work refusals are typically situations when kids just refuse to start or engage in the work assigned to them, for a wide variety of reasons (be they at school or at home). They might simply ‘switch off’ and rest their head on their desk or have an anger bout, or close-up with crossed arms, or aggressively state how they absolutely ‘will NOT’ do what has been asked of them. This can be very frustrating for parents at home as well as for school teachers! Especially, when teachers are teaching a well-designed lesson that they thought would go as per the perfectly made plan! In reality, the lesson plans and activities themselves may have little or no impact on whether or not a student refuses to work. There are, quite often, bigger challenges at play that you will read about further on.

Quite frankly, our educational qualification, research and theoretical reading had not really prepared us for what to do when students refused to work. Handling such children required skills and strategies we had to literally develop on the task, while on the move, during our typical days at school. It’s an area that can be nerve-racking, but when overcome, presents some great eureka moments. More so, since we have always been passionate about innovative classroom practices and in our hearts, we truly believe – all kids deserve to learn and feel good about themselves!

It’s important to remember that students who are refusing to work, may actually be reaching out for help in some way, and WE educators CAN be the one to help them. Who can deny that we ALL have bad days here and there! So can kids. A word of caution – just because a student puts his/her head down during a lesson and doesn’t finish an assignment because of a headache, it doesn’t mean we need to sound the alarm! This blog is intended to help teachers get some ideas & tips on handling the students who repeatedly refuse to complete work and need specific targeted strategies to help them overcome these challenges.

What ‘work refusal’ can look like

Frankly, it can be different for different learners in a class. The manifestations of this were heightened during the Covid and post-Covid school-shutdown years. As stated earlier, many children put their heads down, despite all the coaxing and prompting. Other kids may hum-haw, look around and say, “I don’t feel like doing it now”; and some others may just brazenly look you straight in the eyes and say “I’m NOT doing it!” Some others might say

“I don’t wish to work” Syndrome

“Can I do it tomorrow” OR they may say “Yes, yes, I’m on it!” and the moment we move our gaze away from them onto the others, they ignore our directions completely and continue doing what they want to do – whether it be colouring, reading, doodling or any other activity they were engaged in. Such behaviour is what work refusal can look like – overt evidences of students avoiding doing the tasks that the adults expect them to complete.

Possible Reasons for Work Refusal?

We can safely say with our collective experience that there is always a reason behind a student outwardly refusing to engage in work in the classroom; and by that we mean persistently refusing to work over a period of time. Most often, we may not know the individual reasons.

“I don’t wish to work” Syndrome

  • Some students may have history of deep hurt / pain. Although, we may or may not know about the potential trauma.
  • Other kids might be dealing with social or emotional challenges at home or in their personal life – like a new sibling born at home, parental discord, death in the family, feelings of loneliness with working parents; to share a few examples.
  • Sometimes, children are faced with unpleasantness that overwhelms them, they may have a need to control parts of their life that they can control (like doing work in school or not).
  • Some learners might be diagnosed with oppositional defiant disorder, while others aren’t.
  • Other times, a child or teen may truly be bored and not interested in the topics or the way it is being taught.

Regardless of the actual reason, as educators, it is vital at that point to take a step back and understand that the child is struggling with SOMETHING, whether or not we can see it. Thinking in this way encourages us to be solution-focused, which is what really matters in the end, isn’t it?

Read Part 2 by the same name, to learn about how you can cope and what you should absolutely avoid as teachers and parents, if faced with a “work refusal” child. ***

May 05, 2023 |

Hello Teachers…. finally, it’s vacation time!

Teacher’s Vacation Guide to Winding-down and Spring-cleaning

Despite what most people think, that teachers rarely “relax” during vacation time, it is possible! School activities have come to a standstill and your thoughts would naturally turn to ‘winding down’, right? Believe it or not, there IS a neuroscience behind effectively switching OFF for spring cleaning and switching ON to rejuvenation mode.

Just as your brain’s memory strengthens with practice, so do your brain’s behaviour control networks. What this means is that teachers get used to patterns of behaviour – such as thinking about their students before themselves (during school terms), which can be really hard to break over the holidays. Many teachers experience the stressful fallout of the term gone by. For some, this is the exhaustion or burnout. For others, worries about the upcoming school year are already on the horizon.

Teacher’s Vacation Guide to Winding-down and Spring-cleaning

But hang on, it’s important to switch off! As you begin to wind down, during the first week, just put your feet up, not worry about waking up early, relax with a book, do absolutely NOTHING for a couple of days . . . allowing the keyed-up, taught-muscled fatigue to dissolve into zephyr. You need to sweep away those ‘previous year’ cobwebs and open your mind’s windows, to let in some fresh air.

Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and YOU are worth the effort. ~Deborah Day

Here are some ideas that will help you:

    Teacher’s Vacation Guide to Winding-down and Spring-cleaning

  1. First things first, leave school work locked away in that classroom! The danger of having your paraphernalia (books, notes and plans) lying around the house, will tempt you to get to it. If you can’t leave them at school – find a place that is not visible, nor easily accessible – to put away the stuff, at least for a week or ten days.
  2. Get out of teacher-mode and let others do things for you. Teachers can find it hard to get out of the mindset of doing things for others – it’s practically ingrained into their DNA! But it’s important to allow yourself to relax a bit. Think about tasks your family and friends might want to take on and willingly accept a bit of help. Time to truly believe that if YOU didn’t do the task, the world will still go on!
  3. Don’t waste mental energy on blame – Teachers often hold themselves responsible for problematic student behaviour, or failure to cover every required topic in depth, or for not adapting instruction to suit the needs of individual students. If you feel this way, know that you are not alone! Many educators feel upset and question their ability to fulfil excessive demands; they hold themselves to the highest standards. But when circumstances limit one’s ability to be in control, self-doubt builds, confidence drops and burnout can emerge.

    Vacation time is the time to start rebooting your positive mindset by recognising that these concerns are NOT a reflection of your teaching skill.

  4. Write down all the things you’ve promised yourself to get done during the break. This could include organising things you’ve put off – cleaning your cupboard, getting some new gadget / furniture / curtains, etc., OR taking a short holiday with the family, OR arranging photos on your phone into albums on your computer, OR getting together with people you’ve not met for a long time, OR sending thank you cards to students, friends and families for their kind gratitude/birthday messages. And YES, emptying out the clutter in your laptop / computer!

    Teacher’s Vacation Guide to Winding-down and Spring-cleaning

    Make sure your list has tasks to just spoil yourself silly – enjoy a spa/massage, get a new haircut or add a temporary texture/colour, try some nail-art! You might also want to immerse in festive tasks including making any holiday fun-food or buying gifts for family and friends.

    Apart from writing a list of what you plan to do it might also be a good idea to set aside time to get it done. That said, beware… don’t let your holiday be weighed down by too many plans and deadlines; keep the list short and let it not become a source of stress. Write down what you need to get done, week by week, and then portion out tasks. Setting aside time to get things done will allow you to really enjoy the vacation and truly relax when you’re doing nothing.

  5. Teacher’s Vacation Guide to Winding-down and Spring-cleaning

    Understand your brain’s stress mode – The brain has a system that strengthens the memories and emotions that are most frequently used or experienced. The term for this, neuroplasticity – the brain’s ability to change or adapt in response to thoughts and experiences. It is this neuroplastic response that builds skills when learning is practised and applied. When stress is frequent, the circuit producing that response becomes stronger – which means that after repeated frustrations and unachieved goals, your brain becomes more efficient at dropping into its stress response mode.

    Almost everything will work again if you UNPLUG it for a few minutes, including YOU. ~Anne Lamott

    You can reboot your brain by strengthening the circuits needed to activate motivation and effort. Plan activities that will provide frequent feedback on your development. This is not the time to challenge yourself with things that you feel you should do but won’t look forward to, such as losing weight! Select goals that you will truly enjoy and that will provide tangible evidence of your progress. These could include planting a garden, taking a pottery or cooking class, taking up a musical instrument or developing a new physical skill such as Zumba or learning mehendi art or candle making. As you make progress in new challenges, the repeated satisfaction of the dopamine response will literally change your brain’s circuitry.

    Repeated effort/reward experiences will promote development of new neural networks that expect positive outcomes. Each time you achieve a goal, your positive mindset circuit will become stronger and this will reboot your confidence when you return to the classroom.

Teacher’s Vacation Guide to Winding-down and Spring-cleaning

It does take planning in advance to enjoy the restorative benefits of vacation time. The rewards go beyond your reinvigorated mind and body. However; if you can wind-down and spring-clean, you’ll return to the classroom less stressed. This will boost your energy levels and have a positive impact on your students as well.

After this process, you need to reflect, refresh and recharge yourself with new skills. To read more about how to be a Reflective Teacher, do read about it in the February 2023 QEDpress Newsletter, on Page 4:
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